Adapted and condensed from Parashah Velikchah by
Rabbi Moshe Grylack
The concept of a weekly day of rest is widely
accepted in today's world. Modern man acknowledges that it pays to avoid
burn-out by taking a periodic rest and renewing our resources. In particular it
is the younger generation, which grew up steeped in the blessings – and
stresses – of technological advances, who understand the principles involved
and endorse them.
The Biblical concept of the seventh day as one of
spiritual renewal was first observed only by the Jewish People. It was only
centuries later that the idea was embraced by both the Western world, that is,
the Church, and later, by Islam. Both groups transferred their Sabbath to a
different day of the week in order to differentiate their faiths from that of
Israel. Sunday became the day of rest for the followers of the Nazerene;
Mohammed's disciples chose Friday as
their weekly sabbath.
Today's secular Jews may take pride in being
saluted as the "inventors" of the Day of Rest, but few have any
inkling that the Shabbat is the most powerful means of maintaining one's sanity
and human dignity in today's world of turbulence and terror. The most potent
tonic or medicament cannot compare to the power of the Shabbat to imbue the Jew
with the vitality he needs to enjoy the six workdays which follow. Authentic
observance of Shabbat provides moral and spiritual dimensions not available
anywhere else.
Shabbat is commonly construed as a day of physical
rest or repose. The fact of the matter is that this aspect of Shabbat is only
the key with which the Jew unlocks the door of a vast treasure house. We must
board a plane in order to fly round the world, but only a naive child can be
duped into thinking that the initial flight is all there is to the grand tour.
So too, it is only the uninitiated who reduce the Jewish Sabbath to a day of
physical rest.
What, then, is the benefit of the Shabbat? The
truth of the matter is that it must be experienced in order to be appreciated.
A few words of explanation, however, may afford the reader something of an
insight.
Modern living exacts an excruciating toll from our
qualities as human beings. How can one experience and express his emotions to a
fellow human being while hurtling down the expressway of life at today's
speeds? Events, people, and relationships flash by and disappear before the
heart can absorb them and formulate a reaction. There is no time to breathe,
much less develop and express, a sensitivity to the needs of others. How much
less is there an interval in which we can express that sensitivity in carefully
chosen words and actions? It is out of the question. Before we deal with one
event, another ten are pounding on the door (cellphone, email, and beeper) with
urgent demands on our time and attention. With today's hurried, harried pace of
living, there is no place for kindness, compassion, charitable living and
giving.
Any last fragment of our peace of mind is shattered
by the constant barrage of advertising which assaults modern man at every turn.
You thought you were well-dressed and could devote your time and energies to
other avenues? We'll convince you that your wardrobe is out-of-date and should
be replaced. You were under the impression that you were adequately equipped
with your car/cellphone/computer/ipod/digital camera until now? Just look
what's new on the market! Suddenly yesterday's product is unacceptable; it's
obsolete, and must be replaced.
And so it goes endlessly with Madison Avenue
creating artificial needs based on artificial gains of passing value which have
nothing to do with enhancing man's spirit, heart, or soul and nurturing its
growth. The outcome? A human soul that is underdeveloped, undernourished, and
atrophied from lack of use. There is no time to enjoy a friendly conversation
and cultivate a warm bond of friendship. In fact, we cannot find the time to
speak even to ourselves. We no longer know our neighbors, our relatives, or our
children; for that matter, do we know ourselves, deep within?
The Shabbat is the stop sign that compels the Jew
to put his foot on the brake and come to a full stop. Once he is standing
still, he can begin to take stock of where he is. He can take a moment to
consider where he will end up if he continues along his current path. Above
all, the full stop of Shabbat affords the Jew an opportunity take out the map,
locate himself in the overall picture and review his progress to date. Only
then, when the cacophony of the telephone (both lines), the fax, the Blackberry,
the computer and the doorbell are temporarily muted, is it quiet enough to
detect the still, small voice within, and to listen to its sage advice. Only
with the help of the Shabbat can we become privy to the information we need in
order to determine whether we're racing along life's path toward a destination
we truly wish to reach.
The average Western adult today is a modern-day
Gulliver, tied to the earth he lies upon by hundreds of ropes and pegs pounded
into place by the dwarfs that surround him. Each tiny human on his own would
pose no threat, but by virtue of their great number, miniature natives manage
to subdue Gulliver and make him their prisoner. We, too, are prisoners of our
times. Only authentic Shabbat observance can set us free. The halachah teaches
us how to cut ourselves free from the ropes that bind us to the earth. One of
its goals is to achieve inner calm and harmony and nurture man's soul.
The Jewish Sabbath is far more than the
"creative break" of modern psychology. For twenty-five hours, man
lays down the tools with which he masters and controls the physical world. Now
he is free to take in hand those tools which enable him to nurture his inner
soul. On Shabbat, even the greatest artist may draw and sculpt only his inner
character. He may sing and give expression to the melodies that lie within his
own soul, but he may not pluck upon the strings of any instrument other than
his own heart. For six days of the week, he is the product of external creative
forces and pressures, especially in our days of technological advance. In
contrast, on Shabbat, he is released from the bonds which bind him to the world
of technology.
Today's secular Jew may be hard-pressed at the
prospect of twenty-four hours with no phone or car available to him. He has
become the unwitting slave of his possessions, so that he feels vulnerable and
powerless without them. The observant Jew will not be bored or helpless when
cut off, temporarily, from his technological environment. He has already spent
over one-seventh of his life observing Shabbat, and is confident of his ability
to function and enjoy a full, rich Shabbat without relying on technological
advances. The Sabbath observer has developed an inner communication system with
his own soul which keeps him from becoming bored. He has developed the art of
communicating with his Maker and with his family and friends, face-to-face; no
electronic aids or intermediaries are required. He and his family enjoy each
other's company, and look forward to quality, unstressed time together, on the
seventh day of every week. True, he closes the door on the external world of
commerce and entertainment for that day, but the very same motion opens wide
the door to his inner soul.
The Jewish Sabbath keeps the vehicle of life moving
along the right path, just as wheels allow the cart to advance toward its final
destination. No one would remove the wheels of his wagon in order to lighten
his wagon; similarly, no one who has tasted the sublime flavor of Shabbat would
forgo its delights.
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