Once a week, the Jew enters a "harmony chamber." Here he is at
peace with himself. Six days a week, the stress of earning a living gnaws away
at our peace of mind. It's a strain on our emotional and physical good
health. When the seventh day comes, the
Jew becomes a king. He stands tall and
is finally free. Today, there is no need to give in to external pressures,
social, economic, or physical. On Shabbat, man is free to get to know his inner
self.
The psychoanalyst, Erich Fromm, speaks highly of the Jewish Sabbath. He
finds in it the perfect balm for the emotional trials and tribulations which
are so prevalent in our times. He describes the Shabbat as the symbol of
harmony, an island of tranquility in a sea of troubled, stormy waters.
The repose of the Shabbat is that of the free man. On this day, we refrain
from any involvement in the workaday world. We stand to one side, as observers,
and gain an insight and perspective which are the reward of those who know how
to take a few steps back and away from the hectic race-pace of the Western
world. According to Fromm, the Shabbat provides the Orthodox Jew with a weekly
dose of the perspective that is essential to one's health and peace of mind.
Some do not observe the laws of Shabbat; they regard it as a day for
relaxation, pursuing one's hobbies, or taking long trips. Others consider it as
a day when they are free to relax and "do nothing." Such people may
achieve a physical rest, but they will never attain the emotional renewal and
peace of mind that a real Shabbat bestows on the Orthodox Jew.For those who
keep the Shabbat fully, the day is a unique experience, twenty-five hours on
another planet, the Kingdom of Shabbat. So many concerns are banished, out of
sight, and out of mind! There are no business competitors; there is no
overdraft, and no budget to be balanced.
The Shabbat unites the members of the family around a festive table,
without the incessant ring of the telephone or doorbell. There are no pressures
from without to distract parents from their children's concerns. There is no
hectic timetable dictated by external factors.Each family adapts its Shabbat
schedule to its own needs. Everyone is relaxed and receptive to the other
members of the family, and perhaps to a guest or two. Their outlook on life is
entirely different – and better. The Shabbat transforms them into happier, more
relaxed individuals. They become ennobled personalities whose outlook on life
is broader and more perceptive.
All this takes place within the makeup of the individual. On a national
plane, the effects of the Shabbat are no less evident. There is no
"natural" explanation for the survival of the Jewish People over
thousands of years of exile. Historians over the ages have been at a loss to
explain the fact that the Jews have not disappeared from the face of the earth,
as did so many other ancient peoples, many of them far more powerful and
politically secure.
Statistically speaking, the people of Israel should be found today only in
history books. Many point to the Jewish Sabbath as a reason for the miraculous
survival of this tiny, stubborn nation which refused – and still refuses – to
fade into oblivion. All week long, the Jew was bent under the burden of the
nations that ruled over him, often with a heavy hand, if not with an iron fist
or well-sharpened sword. Persecutions, poverty, massacres – these were their
daily fare. On Friday afternoon, the Jew bathed, donned his best garments, and
stood tall and proud as he made his way to the synagogue to welcome the Sabbath
Queen. At home, his wife, dressed in her finest, kindled the Shabbat lights and
offered up a fervent prayer for herself, her family, and her nation.For
twenty-five hours, the Jew was free; Shabbat transformed him to an aristocrat
and a prince. Its sanctity imbued him with the wherewithal to survive another
week of exile without permanent damage to his soul.
Today's Jew who observes the Shabbat enjoys an added dimension to his life,
not only on the seventh day. The influence of the Shabbat is felt every day of
the week. It breaks the continuum of work days into smaller, separate units
that we can cope with more easily. The Jew never need go more than six days
without receiving a boost of spiritual energy. As hectic as his work may be, he
avoids depleting his reservoir of emotional energy; he remains more relaxed on
weekdays because he recharges his spiritual batteries at regular intervals,
well before they are completely drained.
Those fortunate enough who have had the opportunity to experience the
sanctity of Shabbat in an Orthodox Jewish home have no need to ask the meaning
of oneg Shabbat, the delight of observing the Seventh Day. The Jew's inner
being, gratefully partakes of the pleasures of the day, drawing closer to His
Maker and His commandments. The restfulness and harmony of the Shabbat need no
explanation. The tranquility of the Orthodox Shabbat has nothing in common with
the notion of "a day off" which is devoted to sunning on the beach or
lounging in an easy chair, doing nothing. It is true that we must be physically
rested in order to achieve emotional and spiritual repose, but this is only the
beginning, not the end purpose which the Shabbat is intended to achieve.
Anyone whose Shabbat consists of merely giving his body a day of physical
pleasure is like someone who is just offshore, in shallow waters. He is nearly
ashore, and with a few short steps, he can leave behind the sea of the mundane,
material world, and climb ashore. If he does so, he will find himself happily
arrived on an island of spiritual peace and sanctity immeasurably more
delightful than all he has left behind. The hours he spends there will infuse
his entire week with a new light and joy, and induce him to count the days
until he can again come ashore and partake of the joys of the Island of Peace
and Harmony, the Holy Shabbat.
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